Girl, not everybody is your friend. I feel like that’s obvious, but I’ll be the first to admit, that was a hard lesson for me to learn. I don’t know why, because I knew better. In the past, I’ve had a hard time differentiating between those who are being genuine and those who aren’t.
But anyway, here’s my list of signs that you need to cut somebody off, because girl, it’s time to stop calling everybody your friend.
This is the first sign that someone isn’t really your friend. This person is never truthful with you, even about the small things. You could ask them ‘what color the sky is?’ and they’ll tell you it’s black – just for the hell of it. They will lie to you for no apparent reason, and without hesitation. It seems like all they have time to do is lie. I’ve known a few people like this, but what I don’t understand is… what is the POINT in lying!? Just be honest. They are not a loyal friend. Because the truth is, if they’ll lie to you about simple things, they’ll lie to you about anything.
This person is always bringing some negativity with them. They always seem to have woke up on the wrong side of the bed. They’re always mad about something and it’s just like… sis, why are you so upset? girl, get rid of them. They’re ruining the vibe and you don’t need to be surrounded by people like that.
This person always has something negative to say and they’re never happy for you. They don’t support you and continuously discourage you. Girl, get your scissors and CUT that toxicity from your life.
They use you. The only reason they ever hit you up is when they need something. I’ll be honest, I’ve been a victim of this one. I’ve always been so willing to help those that I call my friends when they needed me, because that’s what friends are for. If you can’t depend on your friends in a time of need, then what’s the point? You’re always there when they need you but, when you need them, they are nowhere to be found. Your needs are an inconvenience, or they’re just simply unwilling to help you. Get rid of them, sis!
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